MOTHERHOOD

Congratulations!!!!!  You are Pregnant . These are the 3 magical word for a woman , especially for the first time mom to be. It's a  great pleasure and a lifetime experience. Since from the first day , she starts to plan about the future of her child ,  from which gynaecologist to consult , how to manage the 9 months , books to be read , what will the child become ? ,  about the school , college and so on ,  the list is incomplete.  Soon after the birth of child , without any acceptation and condition, she tries to give her 100% to shape up her child's future irrespective of all the challenges .During this journey she has to face many up and down emotionally as well as psychologically. And the child grows with lesson given by the mother as well as the experience gained during that period. But being a mother have you ever thought -   Are you able to make her understand the true essence of life ? How will the child is going to  cope up with the struggle and failure ?
LIFE IS TO LIVE NOT TO FIGHT

Will your child be able to identify its own individuality  & do to justifies to it  ; not for the society of but to self ? May be a time can come, when there will be no one for your child, this may happen at any stage of life. It may happen being a mother you will not be there to help your child. But have you ever thought, how will your child survive ?
 
We run after intangible essentials such as -Success, Money, Power, Luxury Lifestyle without even a second thought what we actually desired from our life. And just like us, our child will also do the same thing.
 
If, suddenly failure comes in our life……., we get depressed…….   If, suddenly failure comes in our life……., we get depressed…….   If we are not able to achieve success, psychologically we fail in life and so on. Is this we are passing to our newer generation? And in this way, we want them to live?
Nurture your child imaginations and allow them to live the way they want to live, don’t rule them neither allow others to judge them. Trained your child in such a way that he never fails any battle in any point of life.
Life is too short and we never get second chance to live a second again. Make your child learn to live every second of life they want to instead of running after intangible essentials of life.
 
Location: Patna, Bihar, India

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